this is for you. you, who have fallen in love with a woman who is a mother. you, who is bold enough to follow through. know, this is going to be unlike any adventure you’ve had before. know that, in return, you will expand and grow. know, you will be rewarded with deep affection and she will treasure being seen and taken care of.
you will quickly realize that being in a relationship with a mother is unlike any relationship you’ve had before:
her children will always be her priority and she will do anything to ensure their well-being. you will find fierceness and determination in her, loyalty and strength. becoming a mother has increased her responsibility, her ability to put another person’s needs first and her desire to see another being thrive.
day in and day out she takes care of her children’s needs. constantly planning ahead and responding to change. holding space for their emotions. her countless duties sometimes make her head spin. being a mother is hard work.
when you fall in love with a woman who is a mother, she will want you to meet her children, eventually. she will want you to be part of their lives. be certain you want this. while she will cherish having time with you alone, she will also want to spend time where you’re all together. you are the people she loves and cares about the most. know, you can’t have her all to yourself.
she’s not asking for you to be a parent to her children. sure, she’s excited they get to have another adult in their life. someone she believes is inspiring and a good role model. someone who shows her children what a healthy relationship looks like. all this is true. and above all, she wants you to be her lover. she wants to be seen, courted and fucked all the way to heaven.
when you fall in love with this woman, you fall in love with a warrior of love: her heart is soft and tender, always expanding, able to give and receive. her pussy is dripping with desire and she treasures each time you make love to her more than you can ever imagine.
it’s likely she has struggled to come to terms with the loss of her former, childless identity. it’s likely that in becoming a mother, she has forgotten to prioritize her own needs while looking after everyone elses.
until one day, she gets the wake-up call. it is when she remembers there’s a self outside motherhood, her quest begins: she starts searching, digging for old bones and new gold and discovers a woman with deep longings, ambitions and desires, a woman who wants to experience and explore life to the fullest!
it’s when this truth hits her that she emerges and becomes magnetic af. she becomes self-sourced, rooted in herself. she begins to receive. she knows what she needs to thrive. and she makes it happen.
while she’s compassionate and your well-being matters to her, she has no interest in mothering you. countless times, she has undergone pain, change and growth. she desires a man who takes responsibility for himself. she will turn a deaf ear to why you aren’t living up to be your most beautiful and truest self. she has no time for your bullshit. yes, she’s a mother. to her children. not to you. she is your lover.
you are the one who makes her feel seen and safe. you are the one she wants to share pleasure with. while she loves to pamper you, she loves to receive as well. when you’re together, she enjoys taking a break from running the show, not having to make plans or deciding what’s for dinner.
she’s a woman with many responsibilities and won’t be available all the time. while she might crave to be more spontaneous, it’s not always an option. still, making time for you and pleasure is a priority. it’s what fuels her. flowing freely is what she longs for. you are what she longs for.
you can be certain she will support you in becoming your highest version. you can be certain she will love the fuck out of you. you can be certain she will serve you nothing but truth. you can be certain she will be devoted to you. you can be certain you’re in for a ride.
and if she chooses you, she knows you can handle it.